Merry Merry Merry CHRIstmas!!
have yourself a merry little CHRISTMAS everyone..!!!
Peace be with ye all...
and this is a REALLY LOVELY home! dreamingdigital is really lucky having a house like this one.. oh it looks so warm and comfy... it brings the sensation of.... CHRISTMAS as i pictured in my mind....
i want a home like this someday! *giggles*
happy CHRISTMAS once again folks!
I Swear
And I swear,
by the moon and the stars in the sky,
I'll be there...
I swear,
like the shadow that's by your side,
I'll be there...
I swear......
image credited to sortvind.deviantart.com
lyrics credited to All For One's (I Swear)
November Bash
oh, and by the way, Judy is the one who texted me right away by the time she read my previous post. I really heart you, girl. :P
So, as usual, this has been a hectic week--geez, should I say MONTH? :P
anyway, during this hectic week, I found little surprises here and there. And they ARE nice. small in portion, big in effect. Last month I submitted my story to Pena dan Cerita along with my CV and other requirements to be their contributor.P&C is a freelance writer community and you'll find interesting, inspiring and nice short stories, poem or the contributor's thought. Nice to read, really.
Okay, so back to topic. In the middle of my Test Mehod practice week in college, Jude texted me:
check your inbox.
I was so nervous and very very busy with all the test we have to administered that day so I have no idea what she's talking about. And I don't guess either. When I finally checked my inbox, I was literally JUMPING all around. I was SO VERY happy. For a while out there, waiting for P&C reply, I was actually wondering that maybe I really am not good enough for them. So I was like, this is a very tiring yet happy day!
And then, I finally got my result for my 1st level of Japanese at Gakushudo. My point was 77/100. Er... well.... that's a B+, and it is not that bad, (I'm not you, Wiramihardja. I think I could handle B+. hehehehe... ) considering i wasnt ready for that final test, so hell yeah, I'm H-A-P-P-Y!! My next level should start around this month, but I haven't heard anything from Gakku just yet.
I didnt get the IIEF scholarship fot the 8th batch.. but I'm truly determined to try again next year... :) for the mean time, I should run and finish my study as soon as possible. I'm taking the short semester this year and, uh, altough I actually WANT to take these subjects, but the schedule is very very unfriendly. Here's my classes list:
1. Neuropsychology (100 student, the faculty ONLY open one class, this class opened ONLY on short semester which means once a year, with foreigner teacher, and we will talk about neuro, psychology, medicine and stuff. Don't give me that look, I think I'll enjoy this class. it's a main subject we all HAVE TO take anyways. :P )
2. Child Psychopathology. (nu-uh, don't ask. I have no idea about this. I got the child part, not really do with the psychopathology, moreover if Child and Psychopatology are combined.)
3. Health Psychology (I DONT GET it. Why would Atma Jaya torturing me any further with this subject?? Hello, I'm taking Clinical Psychology this semester and we ALREADY discuss this health psychology thing. Is this subject SO important that you really have to make a class specialized in discussing the health psychology topic?? Sick. This is very sick.)
4. Psychology of Play. (NICE. very very very nice. Mostly because I love Playing and I love Psychology so, yes, I heart this subject. One of my lecturer told me and my friends that this subject is really interesting to learn. She said the final project for us in this class is to create a toy of our own. A TOY. Creating A TOY. in my CLASS. you know, only in Psychology this fun things could happened.)
So, uhm, beside the very tight schedule, and that health psychology thing, i think everything is okay with this short semester. Actually, I felt really defeated because there is another interesting class opened this year. Guess. No, no just guess it.
Yap. MUSIC PSYCHOLOGY.
and will I take that class? No.
Why? Because it is in the same day and same time with that Neuropsychology..
graaaaaa.............. well then I'm just hoping that the class will be opened again next year then. (sigh). Moral lesson: you don't get EVERYTHING in life as exactly as you want it to be. life is too unpredictable.
Speaking about the unpredictable, A is totally being............ unpredictable. One times he's so sweet the next he seems so distant. Or might I say, our relationship is being unpredictable. I am worried, of course. But I got this sense of it's much better to let it be unpredictable (so you will never get bored) than the steady-calm-predictable-lalala- state of relationship. Well, too spicy is not good but not spicy at all is not better either. So yeah, I think I still could handle this. I actually believe that A's presence is somewhat God's plan on teaching me things. Walking with A really do teach me things. :)
that's the sweet part.
the bitter part? He's often acting too out-of-the-box. I could not follow his mind's flow. He sometimes looked like a stranger with a super .......................... weird way of talk and act. Well, I KNOW since the very beginning that this one special guy (to think about it, he's stuck with me for around 2 and a half year now.) is unique. I just don't know that he actually could be this......... different with me. Thanks God I have a very high tolerance rate with difference. -_____-"
but then, he's everything i'm not and i am everything he's not. that's why, i think, there is "me and him" and then "me to him" and "him to me" and finally there is "us". We complete each other in a very complicated way, not always smooth, but we do fit each other nicely. The rest of it? Let time deals. We wait, we pray, we have fun..!
Oh, and since I've been with the PsychoCARE comittee since Moses parted the Red Sea (seriously. it's been like FOREVER), I am pleased now to announce that we would host the event by January 12th. We'll take the children with cancer to various site in Taman Mini Indonesia Indah and I could hardly wait! The work is really hard, but the fun awaiting is way harder to resist. So for you, all the psychology folks in Atma Jaya, registration will be opened by this Monday so keep your eyes open, register yourself and your friends and show that you care by supporting children with cancer..
Another surprise, my old junior high buddy texted me last two days and offering a chance to be a freelance script writer for Campus Radio!! Now that IS really SURPRISING. I told her I'll be very very excited with anything to do with writing but i have to admit, i, uh, apparentely have no single idea of how to write a script for radio station.
.................
I DONT EVEN KNOW RADIO STATION HAS A SCRIPT... hahahaha...
but my buddy said that it's okay and there will be someone who will teach me how to do this. I'll meet with her this Monday. AWWWW this couldnt be BETTER. I'm reaallly excited with this! :) :) wish me luck folks...
so, i think that conclude all the November Bash surprises... :)
have a dear life folks, I'll see you around.
p.s. i put my FIRST shoutmix! ahahahahaha... finally.
drop your lines there.. :) :)
I Miss Them
I miss the feeling of friendship, a warm atmosphere.. something so rare nowadays, when things are so hectic and crowded around me. All I wanna do at the end of the day is actually meeting her, sitting in a couch, holding a cup of tea / nice blended coffee and then talk. But life is never ever satisfied before screwing me up, right? so here I am with ten thousand things to be done and there she is, far away with her own ten thousand things, and time is just on our side. Geez. Meeting her is more impossible then finishing ALL paperworks I have to write for Psychology in only a day. It is THAT impossible to meet her. What a life.
and then... I miss Wiramihardja. this is kinda different with Tyaz. I've been friends with him...for.. what.. 8 years? He is now as busy as a colony of BEES or ANTS. He's even busier than me! and I think i am the BUSIES person living on earth. I don't know how he handles everything, being far away from family and friends and all. I really have no idea. But, there was always time for us skype-ing or chatting or texting or anything to confirm that he is (still) alive and so am I. There was time when we meet at Skype yet we can't talk coz he had to study for an exam and I had to prepare some meals home, but still, seeing him, then saying hello to each other WAS still a form of communication. Now the analogy of a "Star-friend: not always vicible but u know we always there" is kinda hard to believe since there is almost no evidence of him being there. in a dark night sky, even if you dont see stars, you know they are there, because sometimes they popped in out of nowhere in the sky. imagine if for a year you never ever see a star, you might've start thinking that maybe all stars are gone.
and then again, life is never ever satisfied before screwing me up, so here I am and there he is so far away, literally, with no contact between me and him. I am wondering, actually. is he really that busy? Or am i doing something wrong and then he doesnt feel like it to talk to me? I feel like I dont know him anymore.
I don't know. all the besties in junior hig and senior high... will time change human hearts? Is friendship really that powerless against time? If Crystal does move to Aussie, will this also happens?
I, actually still believing, that there are THINGS time could not erase. I just dont know how to convince myself that those people i really love som much are still believing in the same thing even when time and space separate us for an unknown duration. because the feeling in me is still the same. and always will be the same.
therefore, i'm warning you here Tyaz, Vin, Tal, should you three read this, you are so have to text me, contact me, call me, FB-me, email me, anything. any communication means you can reach, reach it right now. It feels stupid to tell this via blog, but I dont know how to reach u guys anmore. well, except you Tal, of course. :) :)
have a lovely day all...
GRADUATION
HAPPY GRADUATION A!!!
oh thanks God he stood there today...
brighter future for your coming years sweetheart...
congratulations... :P :P
Happy October
this is the BUSIEST time ever..! Gosh. September has never been easy on me.. --"
well now, since it's October already, I hope things are getting easier.. because I feel like all this assignments, mid test, tasks and deadlines are killing me slowly.
Got to say A LOT of things happened. A LOT. I joined the ADC (Atmajaya Debating Club) and starting feeling annoyed by A's mumble like "well, since you're in the debating club..." or "now you got a little annoying since you're in debating club" and so on. OH PLEASE. HELL-O. Debating club SHARPENING my logical and critical thinking. NOT changing me into an annoying person who sees EVERYTHING logically. I'm gonna smack A down next time he spoke like that again. Otjer than that, this club is AMAZINGLY UNEXPECTEDLY EXTRA FUN!!. Where were I these past two years?? I should've joined this club from my first smester and save my butt from suffering with this arguments-logical-communicating skill in Psychology. Gee.
But it's okay folks, it's still fun and I met some nice people around. Oh, and I met someone whose appearance and style resembles A sooo much at the inaguration camp at Anyer. I was literally shocked the moment this peculiar guy entered the room. sort of thinking my boyfriend lost his mind and found me there or my mind played trick on me becoz i miss him a lot. Turns out hat two options were wrong. So this guy WAS NOT A, and my mind WAS NOT playing tricks on me either. He just RESEMBLES A so much. His way of talking and how he laughs, his jokes and his cheerful smile, i don't know two different people could resembles each other so much. Later on when ME AND A (i forced him) checked on his FB (God, I beg You for not letting this guy read my post--or if he does, hopefully he doesn't realize it's him i'm talking about) we found more similiarities to A on this guy. Like he's a guitarist and his style (especially his hair) represents A so much forced us to drop our jaws. Even A looked surprised, I think. I wonder if there's someone out there who resembles me too. :P
.........and.... i'm applying for a scholarship. (pray for me, folks). the scholarship required a reference letter from a faculty member where you were registered as a student, and preferrably from your English teacher. so I went to my academic advisor, Bu Ber and asked her about this. Because there is NO WAY I could ask my English teacher to write a reference letter for me. she barely even knows me. perhaps she doesn't even remember i was her student. Then Bu Ber wanted to hear me talking in English so we did the rest of the conversation in English. She said it was "acceptable" whatever did she mean with that and she looked more than willing to write me the letter. smooch for you Bu Ber... :D
then I just picked my TOEFL score today and literally shocked with the score.. it's not a very high score, but it's stil exceeded my expectation. So I just sit there at the office and feel like "Whaaat thee....-----" for at least 10 minutes before i realized i need to get back home as soon as possible to start workin on my essays. I...... really thanked God for the score. Because i really doubted the score before. I MISSED 7 questions on Structure and Written English section. The test was paper based, that means I have to circle black my answer with 2B pencils, which takes like FOREVER to fill all the questions. So when I scored fine, I was definitely surprised. And thankful of course. If it wasn't God who helped me out, I wouldn't get this score. Yaay..! ;P
i also sent a short story to Pena dan Cerita as one of their requirements to be a freelance contributor on the site. The site provides you with short stories from various author and mostly are very good to read. Most of them writeen in Indonesian but a few are also written in English. So check the site out when you have the time folks... Other than that, I found this community called Yayasan Cinta Anak Bangsa (YCAB) and registered my name as a volunteer. They covered the area of "NO DRUGS" for young people. I think it's fun, happy and cool to join their activities so I registered my name. You can also do the same thing by visiting their site. So... you can say I spent my September (and half October) applying for this and that which is a boit exhausting, but I must say I DO enjoy this and have a pretty much fun along the process.. ;D
next issue, I miss Wiramihardja a lot. it's been like weeks since we last talked and he didn't reply my emails. Even when i told him i'm applying for a scholarship, it took around two days before that one busy boy replied my mail. It's not just like him. Usually he'll drop me a text immediately if i'm saying important things like applying a scholarship. So I hope he's okay, coz i miss my neutralizer, a friend to talk to and happy and joyful time skype-ing or something. He's extremely busy but strange I don't know what he's doing that makes him THAT busy. When he was taking his undergraduate school, i still following his movements. He even sent me one of his tasks and asked me to help. But now... i almost know........... nothing. and i'm sad. i missed my bestfriend...
i think i'm just gonna mail him once again tonight and go to sleep.
it's late and i'm sleepy. see you around folks...
i still have like ten thousand things to share, but maybe not tonight.
Good nite all, kisses from the stars.
:) :)
A Sister God Forget to Give Me
urm. I actually............ kinda don't know what to tell, really. Well, i guess life is sure full of surprises. and the fact that my bestfriend decided to drop her degree here and go to Australia next year, and enroll in a state university there is one hell of a proof to that.
why do i eventually always 'lose' the people i love the most?
it's not like Jude is goin to a so remote island faraway in Neverland or something. and it's not like i wont be able to reach her and vice versa... but it's just....... i don't know. i already miss her right now.
being a bestie, she's more like a sister. and imagining she wont be here physically, it's torturing me. i love making friends here and there. i wanted to make friends as much as i meet people everywhere. but to make someone a "bestfriend", whoa. it's a different thing. I'm the kind of person who enjoys one true bestfriend than having 20 fake bestfriends.
in life, i learn that you got some, you lose some. holding to that principle, you got your true bestfriends around you. people you're attached to. people you depend on for happiness and well being. people who complete you. people who doesn't mind with your flaws and enrich your pluses. people who will yell at you when you're destroying yourself, and who will still be there to comfort and hug you when you finally realize they were right. people who make sure you will be laughing at least three times that day. people who make your life worth living. people you love more than you could tell them. people like Jude. people like A. people like Wiramihardja. people like Tyaz, Aloii, Bom2 n Karina.
and when one of them go, you feel destroyed, i could assure you that. i remember i felt this kind of feeling when Wiramihardja left to USA 8 years ago. a bestfriend still we are, we prove what friendship could do across the ocean untill now, but still, it was a kinda hard time for us. and i miss him every now and then, but you know, in the end it's just a fact i have to get used to.
and Jude? I don't know what to do without her here. technology are beyond amazing these days and there will be ways and chances to keep in touch. yes, i am very well aware for that. but still i think it wont replace the quality time, the laugh, the hugs and pat on the back..... part of me really really really want to cheer her on and support her. she's doin this to fullfill our dreams. i'm the one who always said to run for your dreams. that is exactly what she's working in now... but when it involves saying goodbye, it sounds painful. the other part of me feels like i want to cry just now.
but then again, she's running to her dreams. and me too. we set our goal, we set our target, and if there's one thing i learned from Her Highness Miss Realistic, then it would be: to be realistic... :P
she's running to her dreams, i'll support her. and she will just do the same. afterall, a friendship like this is a bond that bind you to death. :P :P
its powers go through the ocean, time and place. friendship is not always in the eyes. it stays longer in the heart.
i love ya Jude. let's run to our dreams together.
Chances
Sometimes, you got to take chances. If only so, you can give one to someone else.
-Reed Garett from CSI : NY 6, ep. 17. Pot of Gold
I See
i see a girl who still believes to the magic of life. that she would walk thorugh fire and ice, and would still be standing pursuing her very own sunshine. i see someone with hopes inside her. and i don't wanna lose her.
what do you see?
If Ever
-Winnie the Pooh
imagining the naive Pooh saying this, i feel so deeply peaceful... :)
Forced to Choose
Then it was never easy. That in some things in life, you have to decide even if you dont want to decide anything.
and the decision you make would affect your life so big, so you need to think and think and think again what to decide, what to do after you decide something.
because the decision you wanna make has to be a decision free of regret. that you dont regret what you've done before. you don't regret the memories. a decision so fine that when you wake up in the morning and open your eyes, you don't feel sorry for yourself. you have the belief this is the right thing to do.
aargh.......!
this is ridicolous. who on earth can do this when it comes to something related so close to your very fragile heart?
Songs of Life
Right now, I'm feeling so very thankful for my life. For every part inside my life. the troubles, the joy, the surprises-- practically everything.
I value my besties even more, for i wont go through ten thousand things without them here. So thanks Jude, Aloii, Bom, Rin, Dee, Tyaz... and u, Vin (for showing me what friendship could do across the ocean. There are a lot of things I havent yet tell you, some uncertainty, more joyful stories, but in short, i'm thankful for what we have as bestfriends, and ocean was never a barrier. Be good out there, pal).
I learn that not everything works the way I want them to be. But God provided everything I need and surprises beyond what i asked. I learn, that when I forced it my way, i hurt too deep. when I let Him guide, i still hurt myself, but those hurt shaped me into a better girl, a better friend, a better girlfriend, a better me,
I'm even more thankful for A. for his patience, for his unremarkable maturity, for his touch, and for his weakness. His imperfect side teach me of an almost perfect love. His presence reminds me of a surprise God gave me 2,5 years ago, when I almost can not see any hope. And like an angel he came. ;)
It's been so crowded and hectic at college. task after task and assignments after assignments, it's an endless stream this semester. But i must say i'm enjoying the process. very much. I've got like 10 classes this semester and even things don't look so very good, i have this good feeling that everything is gonna be alright.
Where that kind of peace came from? I don't know. :)
Oh, and I'd like to share some good songs I've been listening to lately.. these music have been accompanying me along longest hours of internet surfing, scientific journal searching, photo editing, blogging and all, might good for you to listen to them:
1. Beautiful by Eminem
this is a very good song. his words are amazingly close to our everyday thing in life...
"Lately I've been hard to reach I've been too long on my own...
But you have to walk a thousand miles in my shoes, just to see
What it's like to be me, I'll be you, let's trade shoes
Just to see what it'd be like to
Feel your pain, you feel mine
Go inside each other's mind
Just to see what we find
Look at shit through each other's eyes
But don't let 'em say you ain't beautiful...."
2. Broken Vow by Lara Fabian
Most of you perhaps familiar with Josh Groban's version of this song. But I want you guys to try to listen to Lara's gentle and powerful voice, and the music was so majestically luxurious and rich. so please go and listen to her voice. Despite the original meaning, I personally like the words in the chorus part. If you ignore the
original meaning of the song, you probably find these words are applicable to other things you see in life."l'll let you go
I'll let you fly
Why do I keep asking why
I'll let you go
Now that I found
A way to keep somehow
More than a broken vow"
i think somewhere in the song, she (and Groban too, of course. I love him!) also sang this,
"I close my eyes
And dream of you and I
And then I realize
There's more to life than only bitterness and lies..."
3. Gentlemen Dont by Gabe Bondoc
I don't know folks. Have you listen to his song? He's very good. Both the piano and accoustic version of this song is really good. His music and words is so simple. really really simple. Maybe it's just his way to touch us. By his simplicity.
"I’m just a simple man, simple plans,
Good work, take care of my fam,
I’m sure you understand
Because you’re heaven sent, independent,
Do you think you need me?
...But I know very well
Gentlemen don’t kiss and tell"
4. Accidentally In Love by Counting Crows
Oh this is such an old song... xD the song was popular since it became Shrek movie theme song. the song is really really cheerful, and it reminded me of honestly, purely and accidentally falling in love. the lyric is touching in one side, honest and naive in the other side. A very good song. I love this song!
"...What's the problem I don't know
Well maybe I'm in love, think about it every time
I think about it, can't stop thinking 'bout it
...Come on, come on
Turn a little faster
Come on, come on
The world will follow after
Come on, come on
Because everybody's after love....
....Mean we're never alone
Never alone, no, no...
...accidentally in love..."
5. Right to Dream by Mariah Carey
too good, too precisely describing me. enough said.
I love ya Carey.
"I lay awake sometimes
Scared to close my eyes
And I wonder where I left myself
I lost the will to fly
...I find
Somewhere deep inside
Someone strong still resides
And I know she's gonna be fine
In time
'Cause you see
I've got a lot to dream
There's more than this for me
An angel lands with broken wings
Warms me with his eyes
...See I grew up locked in sorrow
So I learned to block the pain
But I won't give up tomorrow"
strange. I've been listening to hip hop and RnB last month. Now here i am stumbled with another 5 mellow songs. :) But i like them all.
ow, Happy Independence Day Indonesia. I hope things will turn out good for the nation.
see you all around folks...
August Rush
I went to the campus round three days ago and registered my classes. I'm taking 10 classes this semester. Pretty crowded Iguess. But looks exciting and fun. I took Child Abuse class with Aloii-chan. Was kinda hoping to take the Woman Psychology class but it was already full, which partly is really my Academic Advisor's (AA) fault. Why? Because she left us to Holland exactly on the day we had to choose our classes. The system needs Academic Advisor's approval to registered our classes. Ms. B had asked one of her friend to take care of us with the approval things. She was a nice AA, really but still not Ms. B. I waited like 3 hrs to register my classes and by then almost all classes were full booked. (sigh). Karina even missed one of her class.
To be short, I had to attend this semester's most terrifying class alone. AGAIN. Geez folks. I wish the girls are here with me. I mean, who else had the hig
hest level of understanding of my own way to finished assignments? I'm a weirdo in doing assignments, and not sure whether the other folks will be as patient as my girls were.
(sigh) (sigh) (sigh)..
Well that's the hard part. The rest of the classes are interesting enough and mostly I can't wait to start. Things are pretty busy here and there, with A struggling on his undergraduate theses and me with all the activities but I could say this is a pretty relaxing holiday. I spent most of my time at home, which i'm glad of, because i'm not sure i'll be around enough in next two weeks. well, i still live here, but you know, the old Psychology Student rule will be back: late night dating with computer, tasks, scientific journal and books. So might spent time as much as i could with my family. Oh, and i am TRULY satisfied with my sleep hour! It's been like ages since the last time I could sleep for at least 8 hrs! xD
And considering the joy of freedom to sleep like this will soon be robbed from me, i feel thankful for times like this. times where I can listen to the music till I fall asleep, watch Mac and Flack on CSI: NY and even go fetch some Starbucks' Java Chip Frappucino with my mum. with Mum. She could spell Starbucks now. Nice. *rofl.
By the way, this Java Chip is definitely the most delicious n yummy-yuummmy-yum frappucino Starbucks ever sell. xD xD. It tasted so good! You guys are soooo have to try it.. :P
those nice baristas will mix choco chips with frappucino and the result is heaven.
heheheh.. :P
i always got the feeling like slurping a chocolate cake right from the straw.. xP
Oh, and there are good movies out there and since A is so busy with his theses, I haven't yet seen Inception, or Salt or even The Last Airbender: Legend of Aang.
*crying
so far A is my best movie-mate and hereby I wish him a rocket-speed energy to finish his theses so we can once again enjoy the good life. Mwahahahahaha. Over-reacting. I know.
I'll just get to sleep, I think. see ya around :)
37 Things About Love
37 Things about Love
I made a list. But, you know... you could always make like a 300000 lists when it comes about love.. hahahahaa...
here's some part of mine:
- Pray together, pray for each other.
- Be polite, be graciously gentle. Don't use harsh words or harsh tone. Keep it low especially when you get angry, you don't know how you could hurt your lover so deep with your words and way of speaking.
- Enjoy your time with your love without being afraid of anything. OF ANYTHING. Fear would destroy every happy moments you should've treasured.
- Golden Rule still rules: Do what you want others do to you.
- Give him . her your FULL ATTENTION when they're talking. Stop reading, playing game or surfing the internet, look them in the eyes and listen.
- Become their number 1 fan and 24/7 cheerleader. Make them feel special. Make them feel loved, Everybidy likes it to feel loved. So give them that.
- Tell your lover how he / she brings love into your life.
- Laugh together. laugh at anything.
- Tell about each other's day during mealtime. (Not polite talking when eating, but still it is fun. xD )
- Say you're sorry. Forget about pride. (As Jude said, "Let love does the talk." 10000% agree.)
- Memories are good, either the good ones or the bad. Recall them together.
- When you finally say "I love you", Let go of the past. Let go of his / her past too. Love them for who they are,
- Do nothing together. Sit in a couch, day dreaming, anything that is nothing... xD
- Trust your partner enough to cry together. Don't forget to lend your shoulder at times he / she needed the most.
- Act silly together.
- Ask your lover questions about opinions, feelings, thoughts. Encourage them to tell the truth, don't be mad when they say something you don't agree or accept.
- Show your joy and happiness feelings when you met him / her.
- Show your gratitude for them. They bring something precious to your life, be thankful.
- Compliment them in front of others. Show that you're proud of them.
- Spend time with them.
- Ask for hugs and kisses.
- Be interested in their interests. It pleases them.
- To say I love you, let go of jealousy. Trust them enough in handling your heart.
- Accept their weaknesses and flaws.
- Ditch work or responsibilities to play with them.
- Be yourself. ALWAYS be yourself.
- Stop comparing her / him to anyone else. People are special, especially your lover, respect difference.
- Learn to forgive. Even when they dont say sorry.
- Leave notes or send letters. Traditional ways sometimes touch the best.
- You don't need reason to give them surprises.
- Don't judge them. Know them deeper than anyone else.
- Give their own me-time when they need it. Everyone need time and space every now and then.
- Keep your promises.
- Make them laugh.
- Consider their feelings. Dont hurt them.
- Let them make their own decisions. You are there to give them advices, not to MAKE them do what you wanted.
- Say what you mean when you say I love you. Say why. Say it clearly.
Have fun loving....
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